First of all, let me greet all of you who is reading this post.

Happy New Year 2014!
May all of you have a great, amazing, and blessed year all along the year.
Wish this year will be better than last year as well.

It's another new year and new year is quite identical with resolution.

If you read my post title, isn't it a little bit too much? 25 resolutions?

Well, it's not my resolutions actually. I read an article around 2-3 days ago and I found it's pretty nice. Therefore I want to share it here and, truth to be told, some of them are applicable for my resolutions.

Now... shall we?

25 New Year’s Resolutions Every Person Should Actually Make For 2014

New Year’s Eve is often seen as a time of rebirth, the chance to start anew. We all come up with the regular resolutions for the upcoming year (losing weight, seeing family more often and/or falling in love ), but often our ideas of what should change are too broad. This New Year’s Eve, we should all vow to take a closer look into our lives and make decisions about ourselves then. These are the 25 New Year’s resolutions every person should make:

1. Stop posting negative sh*t about celebrities on social media. Miley Cyrus does not care what you think about her haircut, Justin Bieber does not care what you think of his tattoos and Gwyneth Paltrow couldn’t care less regarding what you think about her diet.

2. Stop resenting yourself for drunk texting your ex.  Sure, its a little embarrassing, but at least you’re addressing your feelings. Not that you should aim to drink an entire bottle of rum then see what happens, but… roll with the punches.

3. Leave the country. If you don’t have money, look into doing charity work abroad. Some programs will sponsor you.

4. If you hate your job, quit your job. Repeat after me: THE MONEY IS NOT WORTH IT. Food and shelter are clutch though, so make sure you have another job lined up.

5. Stop beating yourself up for skipping the gym on days you truly didn’t have time. But also, stop skipping the gym on days you had plenty of time to go.

6. Make up — not to be confused with make out — with an ex.

7. Rid yourself of enemies. Apologize for what you did wrong and forgive those who have wronged you.

8. Rid yourself of “frenemies.” Don’t spend 2014 surrounded by people you secretly despise.

9. If you think somebody is cute, say “hi” and introduce yourself. Every relationship you have ever had started with a greeting.

10. Leave your phone number for someone. Worst-case scenario: you won’t get a call and maybe you’ll feel a tiny bit embarrassed. Regardless of the outcome, you put yourself out there and probably made the other person’s day.

11. Stop caring about how many people “like” your Instagram photos. If you like the photo enough to post it, what else matters? Social media anxiety is a waste of time.

12. Cross something off your bucket list. Sky dive, bungee jump, scuba dive, etc. Don’t make excuses as to why you can’t accomplish something, and check out.

13. Stop hating yourself for eating dessert. A piece of birthday cake is a right, not a privilege.

14. Keep a journal. It doesn’t have to be something you use daily, but documenting your experiences is incredibly important. You’ll appreciate it later.

15. Strengthen relationships with family members. Blood is thicker than water.

16. Help strangers. “Pay it forward,” do good things for the world — and don’t post a Facebook status about it.

17. Conquer a fear. Personally, I fear Bikram yoga.

18. Turn off your smartphone at dinner.

19. Don’t check your Twitter feed when you’re with friends.

20. Try a fashion trend you never thought you could pull off. And, do it with confidence. Floppy hats, snap backs, Harem pants; you can do it!

21. Double-text without fear. THOU SHALL NOT BE IGNORED!

22. Shop locally, eat locally and recognize where your money is going. Consumers control the economy, so visit the mom-and-pop coffee shop down the street instead of Starbucks. Shop at boutiques rather than chains (they aren’t all expensive — trust me). Try instead of retail conglomerates.

23. Cry. When you’re happy and when you’re sad; embrace your emotions as they come.

24. Stop being so shallow. Next time you find yourself judging someone based on his or her appearance, imagine the person standing in front of you saying, “I’m beautiful.” You’ll start to believe it.

25. If you want someone to commit to you, vocalize it. Don’t settle for being someone’s “f*ck buddy” if that isn’t what you want. “Together” is the waiting period between “talking” and “dating”; purgatory shouldn’t last forever.

Original article: here

I take 4, 7, 14, 15, 16, 17, and 24.

4. If you hate your job, quit your job.
This, my friends, with all honesty that I have, will be my ultimate resolution of the year. *cross fingers*

7. Rid yourself of enemies.
I agree that everyone should have this as a new year's resolution. Every year. This world is already crazy enough with every little thing. Apologize for your mistakes and forgive someone else's will make this world a better place.

14. Keep a journal.
Thanks for Twitter, Path, Blogger, and all social medias where I'm active on. I update regularly so, yes, I do have digital journals here and there to remember my life journey. This is definitely one of my favorite resolutions.

15. Strengthen relationships with family members.
I'm not going to say that I have a perfect family with strong family bond because, no, I don't. However I will try my best to keep everything better as time goes by.

16. Help strangers.
The world needs more love and less hate. Helping friends is a must so why do we need to think too much to help strangers? I'd love to help strangers more this year because, yes, I love to see the smile on their faces whenever I give a little help (I'll talk about this on next post later on).

17. Conquer a fear.
My fear is not about doing something extreme or food or else. My fear is to be disliked by someone for being honest of myself. A friend told me that I should get rid of this habit, knowing that it's the best for us to live as ourselves.

24. Stop being so shallow.
I don't do this much actually but, yes, I do it sometimes. I realize that I should stop judging and all but, human is human, I have so much to learn to be a better person. This year I'll try even harder.

I'm done with mine. Let's see how I nail down them before 2015.

What about yours?


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1 issues:

Anonymous said...

Good luck with your numver 17 resolution.